We aren’t all going to be awarded with the sort of love life that Hollywood makes seem so common. In fact, most of us are going to go through many different relationships until we finally find and settle down with ‘the one’. That is the heart of adult dating, really, pushing your way through the crowd until you are happy. Unfortunately there is no such thing as ‘happily ever after’ in relationships, as any divorce attorney could admit, and you will have to continually work toward keeping your love life engaging and inflamed. We decided to look at some simple ways that you can take a dimming relationship and re-ignite the spark that you used to have. When the flame gets low don’t give up, instead follow these tips and you’ll be more in love than ever once again!
Create a culture of affectionate touching.
We all have our own specific forms of ‘love language’ but one universal form is the act of giving out a loving touch. Believe it or not over time many couples will cool their physical affection toward one another in a way that typically sends them reeling toward relationship counseling. Can the fix to their couples counseling really lay in simply being physically affectionate once more? We believe that you can reignite the spark in your love life by being willing to give out more hugs, more kisses, and more gentle touches. Showing your significant other that you love them via physical touch is a great way to get both of you feeling closer and more involved with one another. These small touches over the space of a week will add up and soon you’ll see that spark in her eyes and the butterflies in your stomach return.